Top Books to Read If You Feel Lost in Your 20s

Are you in your 20s and feeling a bit lost or confused about life? You're not alone believe me, I have felt this way. The transition to adulthood can be a challenging time filled with uncertainty and self-discovery. If you're looking for some guidance or inspiration during this time, turning to books can be a great way to relax a little or feel not alone.

Here are some top books that can help you navigate the ups and downs of your 20s and provide you with the motivation and clarity you need to move forward:

1. "Quaterlife: The Search for Self in Early Adulthood" by Satya Doyle Byock

A recent book published in 2022 that analyzes this crisis explained by her psychotherapy practice with different parts of their life working with these emotions and behaviors. In the book, she gives guideposts and a new perspective with examples to learn all this information and help you calm down during this new time.

2. "The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Most of Them Now" by Meg Jay

In this book, clinical psychologist Meg Jay explores the importance of our 20s and offers practical advice on how to make the most of this formative decade. Whether you're struggling with career choices, relationships, or personal growth, this book will help you understand the significance of this period in your life and how to set yourself up for success and have fun at the same time.

3. "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho

A timeless classic, "The Alchemist" is a powerful and inspiring tale about following your dreams and listening to your heart. As you navigate the uncertainties of your 20s, this book will remind you of the importance of pursuing your passions and staying true to yourself, no matter what obstacles you may face. This is a book of fiction and a classic, but it is also a self-help book that gives you a good message. 

4. "Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear" by Elizabeth Gilbert

If you're feeling lost and uninspired in your 20s, "Big Magic" is the perfect book to reignite your creativity and passion for life. Elizabeth Gilbert shares her wisdom on how to overcome fear and self-doubt to live a more fulfilling and creative life. This book will encourage you to embrace your curiosity and pursue your interests. A Goodreads Choice Award Nominee that encourages readers to uncover the jewels that are hidden within us. 

5. "The Art of Possibility" by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander

If you're struggling to find direction or purpose in your 20s, "The Art of Possibility" is a must-read. The book offers a powerful and uplifting message that will inspire you to see the world in a different way and unlock your true potential. Through stories and practical advice, the authors teach readers how to embrace a mindset of possibility and create a more meaningful life.

6. "Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice from Dear Sugar" by Cheryl Strayed

If you're feeling lost or overwhelmed in your 20s, "Tiny Beautiful Things" is a beautiful and poignant collection of advice from writer and advice columnist Cheryl Strayed. This book will remind you of the beauty and complexity of life and offer practical guidance on how to navigate its challenges. Strayed's compassionate and honest advice will help you feel less alone and more connected to others. The author of #1 New York Times bestsellers also has her hit podcast Dear Sugars, a podcast about radically empathic advice, if you want to know more about her work.

7. "The subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life" by Mark Manson

This book is a self-help guide that shows us how to stop trying to be positive all the time so that we can truly become better and happier people. The author gives you arguments on how to improve your life from another point of view, embracing our fears, and in this way, we can being to find the courage, perseverance, responsibility and honesty. I couldn't put it down; it was funny and entertaining, I almost finished it in one siting. 

8. "Everything I Know About Love" by Dolly Alderton

A good book about the exploration of friendship, love and the journey to self-discovery. Through Dolly Alderton witty and funny storytelling, she captures the messiness and beauty of growing up and finding one's place in the world. This book will give you a chance to see the celebration of the highs and lows of life, making it a comforting and thought-provoking read for anyone interested in the complexity of human connections. 

9. "You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life" by Jen Sincero

This book gives you a straightforward and humorous approach to self-improvement, blending personal stories with practical advice. Sincero's tone makes complex ideas about self-worth, goal-setting, and overcoming fear accessible and engaging. The book encourages readers to recognize their potential and take steps toward a more fulfilling life. It gives you a new look to boost your confidence and make positive changes without feeling overwhelmed.

10. "Stop People Pleasing: And Find Your Power" by Hailey Paige Magee

A book that explores the challenges and consequences of people-pleasing behavior. It encourages readers to reflect on their own tendencies and offers strategies for setting boundaries and prioritizing their own needs. With a focus on empowerment and self-awareness, Magee's work serves as a thoughtful guide for anyone seeking to understand and overcome the compulsion to constantly seek others' approval.

In conclusion, your 20s may be a challenging time, but books can offer a powerful source of guidance and support. Whether you're seeking practical advice on career and relationships or inspiration to pursue your passions, these books will give you the tools you need to navigate this exciting and transformative period in your life. Remember, you are not alone, and with the right resources and mindset, you can unlock your potential and create a bright future for yourself.